Five signs that your partner is a serial player or gaslighter

Ladies, do you happen to be in a relationship and doubt the seriousness of your man? Discover in this article five signs that do not deceive and say a lot about the importance he places on you.

1. They are never clear

Serial players make you guess. They say they’re going to call/text at some point, but they’re not. They will leave you in the dark until you have to contact them to find out what’s going on, which can make you feel a little – or a lot – of hopelessness. Then they’ll constantly (and lovingly) contact you to make sure you’re okay, and then they’ll go ‘off-grid for a few days. It’s exhausting and confusing, and it can hint at the inconsistency that awaits you if you end up sticking together.

2. They don’t commit

Players don’t engage too early; they like to keep all doors open. These will give you the impression that they are hoping for a better deal, which it probably is.

3. They don’t introduce you to their friends and family

Players avoid making you meet the key people in their lives. They drag this out and never do. There are three explanations for this, and the third is the most likely: they don’t want you to learn the truth about them; they lack close friends; they won’t let you get too close to get away quickly.

4. The romantic advances with others in front of you

When someone does this, it is usually usual behavior and a strategy used to test your reaction. The goal is to validate himself and prove that he could choose other partners if he wanted to. They often do just as well at the start of a relationship because you don’t want to sound paranoid or jealous. But the fact that your partner is openly flirting to the extent that makes you uncomfortable is disrespectful and highlights their fundamental insecurity. Be careful.

5. They don’t give you enough time

Ladies, if you are not a priority, next. That doesn’t mean he’ll drop everything and spend 100% of his time with you. But it’s essential that he treats you like someone important and makes an effort to spend time with you. So if he’s always busy or never really has time to be with you, know that you aren’t that important to him.