Sexologist Nadia Bokody believes dictating rules to a partner can lead to a breakdown of a relationship. In fact, when she got married about a decade ago, she had clear rules about how her husband should behave. It’s less likely that your partner will cheat on you if you let him watch other women or grant him the opportunity.
She also said she did not express her opinion but controlled everything he was doing, and of course, that marriage did not last. In fact, Bokody told the Daily Mail that crossing certain boundaries and trying to control partners destroys relationships.
We are taught to believe that true love means seeing only one person. Watching XXX movies or striptease doesn’t mean that love is less. In fact, falling in love doesn’t make any partner an asexual. However, it’s natural to feel jealous when your partner looks at an attractive person, that doesn’t mean you always have to react, she said.
Speaking from personal experience, she revealed that her relationship is no longer built today on the assumption of distrust.
“My boyfriend doesn’t ask my permission to go to a strip club or watch movies, and I don’t check his cell phone. Maybe that’s why it’s not so interesting to him. It’s less likely that your partner will cheat on you if you let him watch other women or grant him the opportunity. As soon as you give him complete freedom, the scam is less attractive to him, the expert concludes.
