Don’t let yourself be convinced that living alone is worse than a life in which you pretend to be someone else, ignoring your discomfort …
Should you hold on to a relationship in which you feel unhappy and alone? If you want to try hard to get it done, that’s fine, but be realistic. It would help if you learned to understand when your work is not working when your partner refuses to work on a relationship, and when that relationship is doomed.
It’s better to say goodbye to the wrong person right away than to give up your standards, morals, and dreams of a happy future. You should not stay with him in the hope that he will come to his senses and begin to treat you well. Better take a look at how he treats you right now.
Remember, no one will blame you for ending a toxic relationship. You hardly want to deprive yourself of the opportunity to find someone who will do his best for you. Be with someone who awakens only the best in you and does not make you cry at night and scream during the next fight.
It is better to give up a relationship than to give up yourself. Don’t be fooled into thinking that you won’t be able to find someone else who will love you as much as your real partner. Don’t tell yourself that this was your only chance to meet your love and that if you leave now, you will be alone forever. Don’t let yourself be convinced that living alone is worse than a life in which you pretend to be someone else, ignoring your discomfort to keep the peace.
Don’t blame yourself for ending a toxic relationship. You should be proud of yourself because you decided to take the harder path. You have decided to do what is best for you and not for anyone else. Many people hold on to their unhappy relationships, but you choose to give up a mediocre life. You know you deserve something extraordinary, so you took the risk of putting it on yourself. You have believed that something wonderful lies ahead of you, and it really is.
Remember, it’s better to give up your relationship than yourself. Don’t think that an unhappy relationship is the best you can afford. Don’t feel like nobody else needs you. Be more confident in yourself. Resignation means denying yourself happiness and believing in another person, not in yourself.
Stop underestimating yourself. Stop thinking you deserve a life that doesn’t even make you happy. It’s okay if you have to give up your relationship. The main thing is not to abandon yourself.