Some find love as early as their teens or twenties, while it takes a little longer for others. Probably most single men in their late twenties, early thirties are ready for something more serious. They date, but sometimes without success. That could be because of the dating mistakes you make.
Dating in your 30s
If you are now in your thirties and still single, it is wise to read through. You are probably (for a while) actively looking for a buddy for the rest of your life. A sweet woman with whom you can be happy. Yet, it is easier said than done. It is difficult to find a good match, and having to date, again and again, becomes exhausting.
It makes you sad when things go wrong again after a date. Instead of blaming the lady in question, take a look at yourself. If you make any of the next date mistakes, it’s smart to do something about it.
You want too fast
One of the most common mistakes. You have the feeling that your biological clock is also ticking. You want much too fast. Living together, getting married, and having children. Understandably, you feel that you are in a hurry, but you are not in a hurry in reality.
You still have your whole life! Take it easy, so a woman doesn’t feel overwhelmed during a date. Start looking for that click first. The rest will come naturally.
You share your entire past date
One of the biggest mistakes you can make. Of course, you tend to share these kinds of stories, and a little bit doesn’t have to do any harm. However, we would like to assure you that things can also go wrong. A woman is interested in who you are and not what her dating past looks like. So leave those stories behind and chat about your hobbies and interests. That works much better.
You want too much
This is in line with the first point. Probably others around you have already found their house, tree, animal. It is not surprising that that desire also grows in you.
However, you have to be careful with this! It can come across as if you are mega hopeless and grab everything that comes your way. This can deter a woman.
Throwing all problems on the table
A date is not a therapeutic conversation! That’s a good one to put your mind to. You’ve probably been through a few things, and if you’re a few dates further or are already in a relationship, you can, of course, tell this.
After all, it is part of you. Try to avoid it only on the first dates as much as possible. A woman is not eager to play psychologist and is probably more looking for a bit of positivity.
It’s all about you
Maybe you talk too much about yourself. About your work, your life, and your interests. It’s also important to show some interest in the woman you’re dating. Make sure you make it clear that you are interested in her story. Otherwise, it can be a big turn-off for a woman.
The bar is set too high
You may have a wish list that a woman should do. A perfect picture: certain hair color, interests, hobbies, and traits. To get straight to the point: you won’t find it. So don’t set the bar too high for yourself because you might reject the love of your life as a result.
And that’s because, for example, she happens not to like cycling and you do. Go open-minded and give yourself the chance to discover everything.