If you want to change your life, if you are fed up with this daily life that gnaws at you, if you suffer daily in a situation that seems unbearable to you, this article can help you.
No, it’s not always the fault of others
This is the principle for growing and changing your life: take responsibility. Take your responsibilities. Decide that you are the master on board and that your decisions have an impact on your life.
Of course, I do not deny the role of chance, the role of luck in our lives, and in our ability to seduce, to succeed, but 100% of successful people have decided not to suffer anymore and to take control of their life. Get behind the wheel, and choose the direction of your new life. In addition, women prefer alpha males who make decisions.
Calm your ego, and it will go better; you will see
Yes, when you’re at the top, you’re going to get attacked. But the ego doesn’t see that. The ego is not prepared and only thinks of itself. The problem is, in our age of social media, the ego glorifies everywhere. A little less “I”, a little more “us,” and you will see, it will turn out better.
To change your life, reassess your life plans
Your parents wanted you to be a pharmacist or an Engineer. Your teachers saw you well to be a good teacher. You had goals and dreams: to become a pilot, a footballer, an actor. For ordinary people like you and me, life is not a dream. We make choices to live, to survive.
But you don’t have to spend your life moping and regretting what has happened to you. An accident? It happens; that’s life. A death? It happens; that’s life. Our life was to make jokes, to write things to make our friends laugh. There comes a time when you will force to reconsider your life plans. Adapt or die is one of the laws of evolution. An important word for us is pragmatism.
You had to adapt to survive. Your job appeals to me moderately; accept it, it pays well, and you have a lot of free time to talk to the girls in the evening. But do not remain in search of an unattainable dream.
Calm your needs for recognition and for revenge
You like us, you are probably angry, with life; women; your physique; covid which restricts many opportunities. You are pissed off because your bank account is in the red every month. Heated because a less competent colleague than you promoted in your place. Anger, envy, jealousy, frustration: I understand these feelings, which can fuel life. These negative feelings can help you move forward.
So that all men are on an equal footing if they decide to kick themselves in the ass. Try to calm this need for justice. Life is unfair. Play with the cards you have given. Once you accept the situation, it should be better.
Control your demons
We are all driven by our emotions and by demons. Some of you can’t say no to one more drink, to one too many drinks. Some of you take it a step further and can’t say no to a joint. I also know some who waste their time on social networks, scrolling endlessly, stalking their ex.
If you wish to change your life, change your habits
I have bad habits; you have them too. But if you want to improve your life, if you’re going to become attractive, you have to try to control your demons. Mastery is the first step towards building self-confidence.
The more confidence you gain in yourself, the more successful you will make the right decisions. These good decisions will put you on the right path, that of professional, relational, and emotional success. You know that everything is connected., and you know that it all starts with confidence.