A first date is always exciting. You don’t know each other well yet, but you want to know each other better. It could very well be your dream woman. After scanning, the date runs a bit more smoothly, and the date is over in no time. But then what? Will you see her again?
Does she want a second date or not?
During the first date, you immediately notice whether the click is there between you. For example, you can notice that the conversation is going well or that there are no awkward silences. However, a click does not immediately mean that she is also open to a second date.
Where you first met and under what circumstances can also have a tremendous impact on if there will be a second date or not. If the two of you have completely different expectations on the first date it can really impact your chances. For example, if the two of you met in the most popular places to find a hookup the chances that she’s looking for multiple dates is going to be slim from the start.
Communication and expectation setting are very important. You don’t want to put too much pressure on either of you ahead of a first date. It should just be a fun activity that two people who are interested in each other do to see if you click. It shouldn’t be anything super formal or special.
If you approach the date casually and fun you almost guarantee that your date is going to have a good time. You’re both going to be nervous so make sure you can do what you can to dispel that.
A click can also be on a friendly basis. It is, therefore, logical that you have your doubts whether she is open to a second date. After all, you don’t want to walk blue. So are you wondering if she would like a second date with you? Then check the signals below:
she touches you
We don’t immediately mean that she takes your hand because that might not happen as quickly on a first date. We’re talking more about her looking for an excuse to touch you, for example, wiping dust off your shoulder or removing a hair from your arm.
If she does this, it will be a reason to get closer to you. So this means she likes it and is physically attracted to you. A clear sign that she is really open to that second date.
She indicates her availability
She might give hints in the conversations towards the end of the date. For example, she still wants to eat at that Italian restaurant or has not yet seen that one cinema film.
These comments are meant to give you a hint that she would like to do this with you. You can then join this immediately or later.
She compliments you
Good compliments can be of great value. They can make quite an impact that can linger for a long time. You don’t just give a compliment. She likes to be nice and impress you when she does this. A clear sign that she is certainly still open to a second date.
She wants to extend your first date
If your first date is on the short side, she may make an effort to add something to it. For example, think of a walk through the park after you have had a coffee together. Or have a meal together after you’ve been to a fun event.
If you’re suggesting this, it means she’s just really enjoying being with you. You don’t have to be afraid if you propose a second date.
She kisses you
It doesn’t always happen, but it can happen to you. She kisses you, for example, during a pleasant conversation or at the end of the date. If that’s not enough to convince you, we don’t know what will. Then ask her for that second date. This signal says more than enough.