Is he losing interest or just stressed? Signs he has lost interest
Does he seldom make unnecessary excuses for not spending time with you? Definitely, this is a sign of losing interest. A man that loves you will bring out time to meet you.
Relationships in some couples can be compared to the seasons. The beginning of a relationship is spring. Falling in love, candy-bouquet period, first dates, timid kisses. After that, summer comes. Passion heats up, relationships get hotter, you fly on the wings of love, and it seems to you that this is forever. When autumn comes suddenly, it’s a sad time. A tipping point is taking place in your relationship. Autumn rains bring sadness, one of the partners begins to mope, and it seems that something is breaking in your relationship, interest is lost, there is no that ardent enthusiasm for each other. Winter is here. Your senses are cold like winter snow. Love passes, your hearts are frozen, and nothing will save your relationship. Fortunately, such a change of seasons and feelings do not occur in all pairs.
But if you suddenly feel the onset of autumn in your relationship with your partner, know that you are on the verge of a crisis. Some take this period quite calmly. After analyzing the situation, sorting everything out, and making their conclusions, they manage to give their relationship a second chance. And for others, who are not used to making compromises, everything ends in a violent scandal and, as a result, a break in relations.
When does the very moment come when he starts to lose interest in you? There is no unequivocal answer to this question because there can be many reasons.
And the sooner you notice these clear signs, the more chances you will have to try to revive your old feelings.
You began to notice his coldness in relation to yourself
If you have the idea that your partner has become cold with you, then you should think about and analyze the situation. If you begin to notice that changes are taking place in your relationship, and not for the better, this means that you are in a crisis.
Now your task is to figure out what is happening, understand how to behave, and, if your feelings are still alive, try to return the love and affection of your man.
Maybe you made a mistake, let the relationship take its course, and now you suffer from your misconduct? Analyze the behavior of both partners in a pair and draw appropriate conclusions.
He finds reasons to spend as little time with you
Have you begun to notice that your man began to linger after work, spends more time with friends, withdraws into himself, demands to leave him alone because he lacks personal space? These are the first signs of an impending crisis in a relationship.
You spend less time talking, do not watch movies together in the evenings, do not discuss each other’s problems – all this indicates that he is simply tired of you, and you have become indifferent to him. It happens.
He stopped asking you questions
He is not interested in how you spent your day, what you ate for breakfast, how you feel, how you are doing at work. He will avoid long conversations with you in every possible way, and your communication will soon be reduced to words of greeting each other, no more.
And even if you try to bring him to a conversation, he will try in every possible way to finish it as quickly as possible to be left alone again with his thoughts and a bunch of questions in his head.
Remember, once your man loses interest in your life, he will lose interest in you.
He becomes the initiator of quarrels
A man who is uncomfortable with the company of his once-beloved but at the same time does not dare to tell her about this openly will do everything possible so that the girl herself understands this. This can be seen in his perpetually bad mood, irritation, and upset feelings.
And every time, as soon as you try to mend your relationship or find out the reason for his dissatisfaction, everything will end in a quarrel. This is his tactic – to provoke you to anger and aggressive attitude, and then call you to blame for the fact that your relationship has come to naught.
Lack of s*x
S*x is an important indicator of a healthy relationship. But if you have ceased to attract him s*xually, then he has ceased to feel attracted to you as a person. Therefore, girls should always keep their fingers on the pulse in this matter. Moreover, today there are many ways to captivate your man, rekindle old feelings and make them flare up with renewed vigor.
But if you, making every effort and doing everything in your power, notice that no shifts are taking place, then this is the end. For himself, he has already put an end to it.
He only wants s*x from you
And the other side of the coin. It can disappear for a day, for two, for a whole week. Then call you and ask for a visit. He explains his so long absence by deeds, work. You blindly believe all this, and an unforgettable night awaits you. In the morning, he disappears again. And again for a week. Where he spends all this time, and most importantly with whom – he alone knows, and he is in no hurry to devote you to the details of his personal life
And you, it turns out, finds yourself on the bench. Do not humiliate yourself, and do not stoop to this. Understand that he only wants s*x from you. Nothing serious will come of this!
He stopped glowing next to you
When we find our person in life, with whom it is interesting and comfortable, joy and happiness burst into us from the inside. We rejoice at every new meeting, even if they happen at least every day. It’s never boring with this person; you want to spend every minute of your time in each other’s company. When we experience feelings of love, we glow with happiness.
If suddenly you notice that the light in his eyes has gone out, and meetings have become less and less frequent, then this may indicate the beginning of the end.
By the way, with women, everything is the same. If suddenly a girl stopped taking care of herself, putting on makeup for dates, putting on beautiful outfits, surprising with beautiful lingerie, then this means that her feelings have cooled down, and she does not care now what her man thinks about her.
He stopped answering you
If his calls have become less frequent, and you do not receive an answer to messages for a long time, unlike your nightly correspondence until the morning at the beginning of a relationship, then the connection is lost.
At first, these may be just dry phrases-answers, followed by a long silence. And if your calls began to take the form of a monologue, the initiator of which is exclusively you, then most likely, you became indifferent to him.
He does not show initiative
When a man loves, he is ready to move mountains to prove his sincere feelings to his beloved. Interesting dates, gifts, trips, surprises – all this is done unexpectedly to surprise and prove the sincerity of your feelings.
But if you have felt that lately, no initiative has come from him, he does not give flowers, does not try, does not give all his best for you and your relationship, does not surprise and does not make an impression; then this is the end. And here, you are already powerless!
Your relationship isn’t progressing
Imagine that your relationship is a garden. And any garden requires the attention of a good gardener. Without it, the flowers will wither, and the trees will disappear. So it is in relationships. Everything can quickly come to naught if the relationship is not “looked after,” but stagnate in one place and let everything take its course. Stagnation in a relationship is a sign of the end.
One of the partners will soon get tired of the relationship not developing and does not move to another stage. Unfortunately, it is so convenient for many men to have a girl, girlfriend, mistress, mistress in one person in the house, but for some reason, they are in no hurry to call her in marriage. There are two options: a) he is afraid of something and cannot make up his mind, or b) he does not see you as a life partner. If the second option, then runs away from such a relationship. There will be no future!
How quickly does a man lose interest in a woman?
It is difficult to answer this question unambiguously. But it is still possible to solve the problem and the overdue conflict. And in this case, a professional family psychologist will come to your aid, whose task is to help you adequately, without nerves and aggression on both sides, to try to understand the situation and resolve it.
And, according to the psychologists themselves, the fastest losing interest in a woman is a man who had no serious intentions and did not feel real feelings towards the girl but considered her an option for one night.
Therefore, advice to girls: do not blindly believe all those forest words you hear so that later you do not have to become a victim. And yet, if your man still lost his former interest in you, despite all your efforts to save feelings, then this is not your man. It would help if you did not blame yourself for this, cry, bite your elbows and fall into a prolonged depression. As difficult as it is, doesn’t take it personally. Your happiness will find you!
