While you lean forward to dip that last buns in the mustard, you look down casually at your belly that has taken on a life of its own in recent months. With a big smile, you stuff those whole buns in your mouth in one go. Delicious?
Women’s opinion about a big tummy in men
You may not mind it at all, but you do wonder what the ladies think. No go or fine? Because if it’s the second, you throw another portion in the fat.
Too trained is not desired
We have good news for all online daters. What seems? Women are more likely to swipe left for over-trained men. They find a beer belly even more attractive than a six-pack.
What women often do not demand of themselves, they will not ask of a man. On the contrary, because what could be worse than working with fries while your husband is eating boiled broccoli with chicken every night? It just makes them feel insecure.
Healthy is attractive
Although women won’t go so fast for that six-pack fitboy, that doesn’t mean you should let yourself go completely. Just as you are probably attracted to a lady who takes good care of herself, she is also charmed by a man who maintains a healthy but cosy lifestyle. And there are plenty of ways to stay healthy but also to combat your manly tummy.
Most women like a small layer of fat. In addition, it can be annoying if a man is too thin and feels his bones pushing against her body under the sheets, and it can also lead to insecurity if a man is much thinner than his partner.
Strive for your personal body ideal
It may sound cliché, but the ideal body for a woman makes you feel confident. Have you ever met a very slim beautiful woman who seemed very insecure? And have you ever met a somewhat fuller lady who was super social and cheerful and very confident about herself? Who would you rather spend an afternoon at the beach with: with that cosy fuller lady and a six-pack of beer or that insecure slim woman and a bag of carrots?
If you’re a little heavier than you’d like and you’re not completely happy with the way you look, you radiate that too. So strive for a body that matches your body ideal. That’s what women like. It is also often the case that people fall for someone who has relatively the same body type as they have themselves. So if you have a nice layer of bacon, chances are you don’t mind if a woman has it, and vice versa.