Too many cocks in bed won’t turn anyone on, but if you’re panting like a turtle, you’re not going to make a bed partner happy either. You have to get the right balance. In short: know what to say in bed.
What should you say in bed?
No matter how extraordinary the chemistry between you and your (bed) partner is, there comes a point in your life when things start to become routine. That probably means it might be time to step out of your comfort zone and throw some dirty talk into the mix.
For some, it all comes more naturally than others. It’s always a good idea to start with something you’re confident enough to say while making eye contact — something as simple as a well-timed “I want you so much” can work wonders.
In addition, it is mainly about the way you say it and the timing. But it’s helpful to have a repertoire of phrases to work from. It’s a skill that some are pretty uncomfortable with. It takes thought, patience, confidence and practice until it becomes intuitive and effective.
It raises the mood the passion and creates more meaningful escapades. You can say the following 7 things in bed.
“That feels so good!”
With this short but powerful sentence, you communicate precisely what you like and what feels good – what is important for both you and your partner.
Good adventures and clear communication are intertwined. Saying during the act what you like and what you don’t like is very normal.
“I’ve been looking forward to this all day”
Don’t just save this phrase for your cheat day pizza. By pronouncing this sentence, a seemingly simple task is enough: to let the person you’re with know that you’ve been thinking about him or her and, more specifically, have been looking forward to sleeping with him/her all day. Who doesn’t want to hear that?
“I can’t wait to feel you”
Chances are, you may have already used some form of this go-to one-liner to let them know how much you crave. You don’t have to limit this sentence until you’re standing in front of your bed again. For example, whisper it in the ear as you walk home from dinner.
“Do you like this?”
It may sound trite, but it certainly isn’t. Before you start uttering all kinds of kinky cries, it is very important that your bed partner feels comfortable and nice; then, you can always go further. If you already know your partner well, you probably already know what he/she likes and doesn’t.
“What do you want to do with me?”
One of the biggest misconceptions is that it only happens in the bedroom. But whispering something exciting to your partner while you’re at a party or in an intimate corner of a restaurant is a great way to build anticipation and suspense.
” I want you to come”
Being selfless in the bedroom and vocal about your intention to make your partner orga*m almost guarantees arousal. It’s just nice to know that you’re thinking about him/her too, instead of just your highlight. Hopefully, this feeling leads to trying new things and being more open with each other. Did you take that with you right away?
It doesn’t have to be so politically correct, especially while you’re in the heat of the moment. Say it. Shout it! Show the intensity of your pleasure to your bed partner with this simple yet effective word. In this way, you convey your pleasure, and you can arouse your partner.