You finally met someone who laughs at your jokes, shares the same interests, and is always ready to support you. But are you sure that after some time you will propose to this person? Deciding who you would like to spend the rest of your life with is very difficult. And every man wants to know for sure whether a certain girl is his destiny or not. Here are five ways to help you understand that she is the one.
She loves you, not just your lifestyle
What does everyone need when trying to build a solid and serious relationship? Support, of course. Yes, your girlfriend can take a walk with you when you are bored. But will she support you if you get upset about not getting a promotion or losing your job altogether? If the answer is yes, your soul mate may be your last love.
She lets you into her inner world
We all have boundaries. But if you are wondering if you are ready to devote the rest of your life to someone, make sure that this person can let you into their inner world.
Every man needs a girl who, at some point, can relax and share all the personal aspects of life with you. She should not wear a mask or show herself at her best. If a girl can destroy all the obstacles between you, you will probably also open up to her. This is how you work together to pave the way for a real and lasting marriage. Learn to communicate; this is a vital skill in relationships and life in general.
She’s not hard to please
Every woman has her preferences and desires. Therefore, you need to find out in advance if you can give your companion what she wants. Or, in simple terms, is it easy to please her.
Have you noticed that a girl often complains that she wants to have a larger apartment or receive more exciting gifts? If her complaints are justified, heed them. But if you think that her desires are not realistic and that she will always be dissatisfied, no matter what you do, it is better not to count on a serious relationship with such a partner. The most crucial aspect of your relationship should be your commitment to each other.
Your partner is faithful to you
This seems obvious to people in monogamous relationships, but some still need to be reminded of loyalty. When you decide to declare your unparalleled allegiance to someone, you need to be sure that that person can reciprocate.
Moreover, it’s not just about cheating. You must be completely confident in your companion. In other words, will she protect you when needed? Will you trust her when you are at odds with others? If your answer is yes, you seem to have found someone very loyal to you.
Your family and friends approve of your choice
If the opinion of your family members or friends is authoritative for you, then find out what they think of your companion. It will become much easier for you mentally if they approve of your choice.
If you have genuinely found true love, chances are, it has a positive effect on you, and your loved ones will be able to feel it. Of course, not all relatives get along with each other, and your brother or old friend may not approve of your girlfriend’s candidacy. But this can only happen because, for example, they did not have time to communicate with your soul mate and draw conclusions based on the impressions of other people.
We’ve considered the best outcome. But if most of your loved ones cannot support your choice of a girl, analyze the situation. What did they rely on when making a decision? What arguments did they use? Suppose you realize that there is some real reason behind a negative answer (for example, many parents may be jealous of their son for a potential bride) that does not affect your relationship with a companion in any way. In that case, you may not listen to the parents’ opinion.