When it comes to women, there’s a rule: don’t try to understand her, love her. For men, that’s easier said than done.
After all, men want to understand things so that we can take them into account. That does not mean that every relationship is complex, but with several handy tips, you can perfectly sense what your wife or girlfriend wants without her saying it in so many words.
Make your relationship special
Most importantly, she likes you, which is why she’s in a relationship with you. That’s not to say you don’t have to do anything after you’ve won her heart. After all, she does, and more often than ever, she makes an effort to look as good as possible. After all, she wants you to be proud that she is your partner.
In fact, women’s efforts go so far as to present even the most damaging aspect of their character as a positive trait.
All you need to do to make sure her interest in you doesn’t fade is make her feel special. That’s easier than you think. For example, after dinner, watch a movie together and then tell her that you feel comfortable with her. Such a statement must, of course, be sincere and not dependent on whether or not she wears make-up.
Even when she’s sitting next to you in her most unattractive outfit, you can still make her feel like she’s the most important thing in your life. In the end, it’s not about the make-up or the outfit; it’s about the character.
Be her support and rock
Of course, relationships aren’t just about giving compliments to a woman, even though they are essential. What is even more important is that you are there for her and help her be herself and stimulate her in her development.
In concrete terms, you can help her push her boundaries and get over her insecurities. If, for example, she has indicated that she finds a piercing super cool but does not dare to enter such a shop, drag her there.
That way, help her overcome those fears, and she will be a lot happier. You show that your hair feels perfect. Incidentally, that does not work for every woman, but use your intuition, prepare it well, and notice that she appreciates your efforts.
Provide a “personal touch”
Women appreciate it when you think, for example, by spontaneously sending her flowers or other small things. Such small gestures have a tremendous impact on the average woman. It ensures that she knows that you are thinking of her, and that alone makes for a special feeling.
What’s even better is the personal touch you give it. Simply picking up a flower from the florist on your way home from work is easy. Make it a nice story, and make sure she knows that you chose it especially for her. Saying that you only bought that one bunch because the market stall was closing and it was now extra cheap will not provide many bonus points.
If you say that when you saw those flowers you had to think of her, it quickly makes it a lot more special. In short, show that she plays a significant role in your life and that you understand that it is important to her when you think of her