Even though few men notice it, there are still some signs that your partner is willing to dump you. It’s up to you to identify them. Breakup is painful but what is more painful is the last stages before the final whistle.
It gives more edge first to blow your whistle before she did hers accompanying strange attitudes. To help you do this, we have listed the six main behaviors that seem to prove that she wants to leave you. Know how to anticipate the breakup to avoid it. Often, many men are surprised when their partner tells them that she wants to break up. Now, before it gets to that, the woman always leaves signs.
Unfortunately, very few of you pay attention to them, either because you don’t know them or because you don’t pay attention. In all cases, gentlemen, it is crucial to know the warning signs of a breakup, to avoid the effect of surprise, and save what can still be.
Six signs she will soon dump you
1. She distances herself
Some signs never fail. And your partner’s sudden distancing is often the expression of a desire to dump you. Note that this distancing is both emotional and physical. She is less and less available to see you and cancels dates that you had planned together.
The most common excuse in this kind of situation is that she has something planned with her girlfriends when she didn’t even inform you. The explanation is simple: she could not inform you, simply because nothing was intended beforehand with her friends.
Another expression of her discomfort is that she will offer you at the last minute to come with her best friend, for a date that initially was to bring together only the two of you. Yes, she doesn’t want to be alone with you. She no longer has the head for that.
2. Lesser or no tactile
Usually, she checks in on you regularly during the day. SMS, calls, she is very attentive. But when she’s no longer in the relationship, she doesn’t really care what you do with your day. She hardly speaks to you, to speak only of essential things; the bare minimum what.
Women are naturally very tactile. In the past, she may have liked to pull your hair, stroke your beard, or tenderly pinch you. But now she avoids all contact with you. And even when you try to touch her, she pushes you away, avoids you, or jumps up. Also, she no longer feels comfortable with you having physical contact.
Once you noticed the sign, first dump her before receiving the hardest part of her that will end with family consolations.
3. You’re no longer her priority
When your partner is no longer satisfied with your relationship and plans to dump you, you will notice it through her desire not to spend much time with you anymore. If you are not yet living together, you will find that she will take less and less initiative to come to you. And for the rare times she does come, she will have only one desire; go home as soon as possible, or at least no longer be in your presence.
If you are already living together, she will come home later, more often, and the few times she gets home a little early, it will probably be with some work to do at home or with supposed fatigue and a need for rest. In fact, all excuses are good to avoid you.
Plans with her friends, family, and colleagues are repeated more and more. She who, formerly, did not spend a weekend without you, suddenly finds herself busy. Gentlemen, she is taking the key to the fields. In some cases, this sign can be compared to those of infidelity.
4. She ignores you in public
Here you will notice that your partner, who is usually very tactile in public, becomes reluctant to touch you. And even when you try to do it, it shifts delicately. Generally, women like to appear clearly in public with their partners.
A kiss here, a nudge in love there, they never miss an opportunity to get you noticed in public. In the eyes of your friends and even strangers, you are the perfect couple. But when she has her head elsewhere, at the slightest similar attempt on your part, you irritate her.
Even with your friends, she avoids kissing you. And this sign is the expression of an emotional distance, and often heralding a possible rupture.
5. She always looks for arguments
When your partner starts to tire of you, you’ll notice that she never misses an opportunity to create an argument. Either she will find you extremely jealous of something quite trivial, or she will get annoyed at an attitude that she found adorable in you a few months ago.
She is constantly trying to accuse you, blame all the wrongs on you, and make you feel guilty. When you want to drown your dog, it is accused of rabies, they say. This is how a woman proceeds when she is no longer mindful of your relationship. For her, any subject is good for arguing. For a “yes” or a “no”, Madam becomes inflamed and becomes very irritable. Simply because you forgot to send her urgent 2k, she suddenly finds you irresponsible and incompatible.
6. Not accountable
In the old days, when she received a late phone call or text, she would spontaneously tell you who it is. When she was going out, you usually knew where she was going, with whom, and what for. When these good habits, which were reflexes, become rare, or are perceived as chores, then there is a good chance that it is the expression of a desire to give up everything. A famous sentence illustrates this disengagement: “I am not accountable to you”. Here we are!
As a rule, women love surprises and gifts. But when your partner becomes reluctant to accept your gifts and other expressions of attention, it is often because she is no longer comfortable with her conscience. She blames herself for something and sees herself more in a simple friend or acquaintance posture than a partner.
If you start to feel any of these signs, you can always try something, try a change or two, to turn things around and before she dumps you.
But when several of these signs accumulate, the wine is probably already drawn… alas! “Goodbye, my lover”… It’s up to you to find the strength to overcome the breakup and move on. It’s good to dump the ass who is planning to dump you