There are many small changes in a relationship that may indicate that your partner is starting to get bored. And they can be so small, like forgetting to make your coffee or being late to respond to your messages, that you do not pay much attention.
If you notice the following signs, it is a good idea to do an emotional check-in with your partner. This will help both of you understand how you feel and express things that you have noticed have changed.
Signs that your relationship is boring
1. He is bothered by everything
If he is constantly complaining about random things that may not have been a problem before, this may be a sign of emotional disconnection.
Instead of laughing and lovingly accepting your flaws, it seems that everything suddenly bothers him. When he was in love, he could overcome all that, but now he is having a hard time because his feelings are changing.
2. He no longer wants to disagree with you
The truth is that quarrels are not suitable to have in a relationship, but if you stop disagreeing completely, then there is a problem. The desire for disagreement (in a healthy way) requires some level of care and passion.
Couples get upset and disagree because their relationship means something to them, and they want to resolve things. When one of them stops being interested, he will stop and disagree.
3. He behaves strangely and has secrets
While every man wants some private moments, even when he is in a relationship, if you still notice some strange or suspicious activity, such as the fact that your partner has a new password on his phone or protects his screen every time you walk into the room, then this may cause some concern. Because it may indicate that he is flirting with others, using dating apps.
4. He does not make future plans
If your partner refuses to plan your next trip, consider that he or she may have stopped making plans for your future together.
5. You have no eye contact during s3x
When one feels bored in a relationship, then s3xual activity also tends to be done without feeling, but as a chore. Of course, not looking you in the eye is not a cause for concern, but if it is associated with other patterns of behaviour, then there may be a problem in the relationship.
6. He is suddenly very busy
Every relationship changes and changes over time, but do not always assume that everything is fine. If your partner looks different, let him know and discuss with him everything that concerns you. From there, you can decide together what you can do for your relationship. But you will not know it until you speak.